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31 Oct

VIRGINITY A MYTH

Published by ZARA ALAM

VIRGINITY IS A MYTH

Hi, 

     I am gonna discuss a mythological concept which always used to blame someone's Characterization & Existence -

 

"VIRGINITY holds on to the meaning - the state of being naive, innocent, inexperienced. 

 

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A person who is lacking experience and naive about a concept is called as Virgin.

 

The concept of virginity is just misleading the society, virginity is nothing regarding Sex. It just defines the state of your knowledge in a particular concept or context.   

 

Chastity is being pure or virtue, if you do something wrong or indulge in any bad aspects your purity may effect, so it indirectly effects  your chastity.

 

A person who is  innocent about the general issues or the context of physical issues is called as virgin. Once if you indulge or know the bad & sinful context, you are counted among the impure and  then you lose you chastity the pureness and you are no more a virgin, if u lose your chastity.

 

Virginity and Chastity defines your Pureness and Character (the moral values), there is nothing regarding with your physical existence or physique.     

 

The simple question "Are you Virgin?" - just bangs the whole existence of a person if the answer is NO. For your kind information Virginity just defines your moral values, it doesn't mean a person is slut or scrubber or street walker.

 

If Someone is raped or sexually assaulted or harassed  it doesn't define their Character(moral values), it defines our ill-responsibility towards the assaulted ones. Even if someone supports or take initiative to do something  the people spread rumors about us too. It becomes a burning topic for media and the whole society to discuss. Please cut all the crap and move on, let the assaulted once give the chance to move on, stay happy with present and live for future & cut the past as a Nightmare.

 

If he / she is not virgin it just means that they know the particular context. As per my knowledge now-a-days a Metric/a 15 years old person can easily understand "What is Sex? / What is Reproduction?" As a text book teach us what is Reproduction? to just learn the concept and in future the child can build the careers in scientific field. The media use all the nasty advertisements and  has an adverse effect on the teenage, youth and moreover under teen's. Am not blaming the social media, multimedia and a textbook as they publish the content with copyrights and with instructions written over it under 10/12 should not watch the things but we never focus on instructions.

 

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The concept is that we never follow the guidelines & instructions and we blame the Society, but the fault is that we never understand the adverse effects of a simple thing on a human being as we all are different and  our level of grasping the things & understanding the things is completely different.

 

If you consider Virginity is true then no one is VIRGIN in this whole world as  everyone know about the concept of Reproduction or else agree with the that Virginity is just a myth and stop blaming and Respect the Humans around you.

 

A simple issue which is just a comment for fun is an heart breaking issue for other person, it depends on the individual person. So, we should raise a Children by teaching them the moral values, such that in further future they can Cope up with the Consequences and can differ between GOOD & BAD.

 

Now-a-days its just common that, the issue happens some where we blame someone and shout out for it for sometime then we calm down. The main problem is that we are living in a mythological world where we built some creepy rules and believe in myths & principles which blames the Society for everything. 

 

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Please Grow up and think with Maturity, don't involve in personal issues of someone and blame them for no reason with your shitty ideology. The concept of physical relationship(SEX) is different from Virginity & Chastity.

 

 Virginity & Chastity are for both men & women, for all Humans not particularly defined for some Gender or Creed."

 

I am so sorry to discuss all these, I am not against anything, anyone, any creed or this society. I just crumbled by hearing a story of someone who is just deprived by the rumors and fake concepts of love & lust.

 

I apologize each and everyone because I don't have any kind of rights to speak over the Society. 

 

- Yours ALAM

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