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08 Sep

WORLD OF EXPECTATIONS

Published by ZARA ALAM

WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF EXPECTATIONS

 

 

 

 

INTRODUCTION:-

           I am going to explain about different expectations of every individual in each and every different stages of life.

 

 

GOD:-

           God the almighty has created the whole universe, all the living and non-living creatures. He has created nature, animals, humans and he expects us to live the life which is granted by him. He has such expectations, with his expectations we are surviving. So, why don’t we have expectations?

 

 

NATURE:-

            Nature provides us with a lot of pleasures and it expects its protection from us.

 

 

UNIVERSE:-

            Universe is completely bounded by some energy it is in its position by some forces like gravitational force etc; If forces between objects in solar system doesn’t exist then it may collapse, so the universe expects some force to be in a bond.

 

" Humans are leading a life of expectations "

 

HUMAN BEINGS:-

           A woman is used to be asked that - “Are you expecting?”, when she is going to be a mother. The word expecting even starts in your life before you completely come in form.

When you are in your mother’s womb she expects baby might be a girl or a boy.

 

 

EXPECTATIONS OF PARENTS FROM A CHILD:

           When you are born, you might be baby of 2-3 years, your parents expect you to speak and walk.

 

When you reach 3-4 years, you try to know everything as a kid of 4-5 years ask a huge questions, it’s your expectation from parents to teach the things around us.

 

When you start studying or going to school, your parents expect you to learn everything what the teacher says to you.

 

When you reach your primary school from kinder garden, your parents expect you to read & write in a well manner and learn some courtesy.

Even they teach you, “how to eat - how to do things - how to behave? - how to pray? - and so on”.

 

When you reach you to secondary school, they expect you to get good marks & well performance in your cultural, technical & extra-curricular activities. They start a retrospection on you that – “how you are doing in your daily life”, because they need good result from you.

 

When you complete your secondary school education, they expect you to decide a future planning for better career. They even compare you with others to motivate you to enter the world of competition to get better result regarding your career.

 

When you complete your education of graduation, they expect you to get a job of good earnings which has a better future. Even they expect you to be married and to lead a happy life with your partner & children.

 

" When they reach to last stage of life,

they expect care & love which they provided in our early stage of life " 

 

A girl is expected to get married and lead a happy life by managing all relationships and work.

 

A boy is expected to earn money and lead a happy life by managing his work with all the responsibility.

 

For all of their life they just expect something from us, because they love us, they have none to think about except ourselves.

 

 

EXPECTATIONS OF A CHILD FROM PARENTS:

 

"A child is a symbol of love between parents"

 

When baby is in mother’s womb, the baby just listens to the heart beat of mother & it provides the baby with all warmth.

 

When born baby cries due to the change of environment and baby will be comfortable when mother takes them in to her hands.

 

When a baby grows, they need special care, love and a lot of time they spend together.

 

They need to be taken care, hold them, hug them, teach them everything in gentle manner, provides them with all they need.

 

When they reach the age of primary school, they just wanna play, enjoy, have fun, eat etc; & when they reach the age of secondary school, they want freedom, care and should not be forced to get into the race of education.

 

When they cross this age, then they get an understanding of the society & career then, they themselves move into the race of education and expect for good results in career.

They expect to live their life happily without any distractions or problems.

 

" Every child expects a huge amount of love, care and encouragement throughout the life "

 

 

EXPECTATIONS FROM RELATIONSHIPS:

 

A boy or a girl, two different individuals from different aspects either physically or mentally, but they are humans in nature.

 

Human heart expects a lot of love, care and respect. Relationships just need love, care, trust and respect, whatever the relationship it may be.

 

" Relationships are built on trust and love

but, holding on relationships is a hard task in this technical fast world "

 

We are living our own individual lives in this world, but we are expecting a deep sense of love and affection psychologically, because we are having a deep sensible heart of humans though we are living life of robots.

 

 

INTROVERTS:

Introvert expects a lot of care because they often lose hope in life and relations. They need to cope with the society, to do this they need a lot of encouragement. They make themselves as tough and lead rough life in a rebellious way.

 

" Introverts are fantastic people with high expectations and less courage "

 

 

EXTROVERTS:

Extroverts expect less from world because they handle themselves in all aspects. They need someone to handle their heavy attitude of over possessiveness.

 

" Extroverts are a kind of people who seems to be unexpected, but actually expect a lot "

 

Everyone in this world is expecting something :-

Poor expects to fulfill his minimum needs, rich expects fame, famous persons expects safety and freedom. People earn to live, live to eat, eat to survive.

 

Scientists expect their experiment to be successful, business man expects a lot of profit, farmer expects a lot of agricultural profits.

 

 

" Expectations are as healthy and quiet dangerous too "

 

They are good to some extent, to encourage ourselves. They are harmful, if they are quite against reality.

People expect love, care and respect from others.

 

Finally we are living in a world of expectations, where we expect a lot. Expectations are good to some extent.

 

Every creature in this world expects something from god, nature, animals or someone else in this world.

 

" No one has limitations on dreaming or expecting from anything "

 

We are free to be imaginative, but over expectations which are quiet bigger than reality are harmful to psychological health.

 

So, lead your life with limited expectations which reach up to reality.

 

All the best for your expectations, beliefs which are connected with reality.

 

 

 

 

- YOURS ALAM

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